Have you ever intentionally made love with your clothing on? Does the idea of the lights being on horrify you? With this 2 part ENTRY hopefully I can assist you in changing that!
Some of us love it, some of us want it but are scared to say so, and some of hate the idea of taking our clothes off PERIOD! Sex is one of the most intimate experiences in the world. It’s a beautiful sharing of energy and passionate expressions. YET it can be a total nightmare for some of us.
Before you can truly express yourself with a partner you have to first love your nakedness. I suggest standing in front of the mirror, starting with your face and tell yourself something you love about your face. Next remove your clothing piece by piece and find something beautiful about every part of your body. Then stand there in the mirror, do a few spins and really admire yourself. Dont be quick to throw on your clothing, admire yourself until you a truly able to love everything you see. If your not proud of what you see, your partner will feel the same way, thus ruining the sexual experience. Once you are comfortable with yourself the possibilities are endless!!
Sex and positions: The first tip I can give is that you must feel comfortable with your partner. When you’re comfortable your partner is comfortable and the sex becomes incredible.
The basic and easiest position is missionary. If you do not know here's the explanation: The woman lies on her back and the male does the work. From this angle you look smaller and your tummy looks flat due to you lying on your back. To the ladies that are willing to go a little further lift your pelvis off the bed and you slide up and down. It’ll mix up the usual missionary position, it also give you control of the speed and depth!
Second position is doggy style: with your back arched the male enters you from behind. Your stomach is not visible and you may feel more comfortable with out your stomach being seen. If you are a little more experienced have your partner stop "pumping" and you move your back and backside. DO some work he will appreciate and you'll enjoy controlling the speed and depth of the entrance. If your not sweating your not doing your job ladies!
Reverse cowgirl: Similar to the doggy style in the sense that you are not facing your partner. You a riding him with your back turned to his face. With this position you can also control the speed of the "ride" . Another tip is to tighten you vaginal walls as you control your speed. This will provide a pulsating sensation for him. If you are willing to go a little further tie up your partner using something as simple as a tie or belt.
Im sure there is a special name for this last position but Im not sure of it. You lie flat on your stomach and the male enters from behind! He can get some stability by placing his hands on the small of your back OR pinning down the back of your neck to the bed. I suggest purchasing a restraining kit for your local sex shop. Have your partner tie your arms and feet to the bed. This makes this position extremely exciting. You can turn it to a game by trying to escape.
Last and certainly not least of the simple positions is Side ways. You lay on one of your hips and he enters from the side. You can make this one exciting by taking a neck tie and placing it around his neck and when you want him to go deeper pull on the tie. Remember ladies it’s the little things J.
One thing you must remember is sex is more than just insertion. If you stimulate all five senses the orgasms will be intense. Remember taste, smell, sight, touch, and sound.. Email me and ill teach you how to stimulate all of them in one act!
Ladies grab a bag and fill it up with goodies. Keep it close to the bed or in the closet. A sex toy of your choice, tongue vibrators, BJ rocks, lubricants (flavored and not flavored), ben wa balls, restrainers, blindfolds, paddle, whip, handcuffs, nipple stimulants, condoms..etc those are just a few things!
I also suggest taking your pleasure time out of the bedroom. Try the car, movies, park, beach, etc. Another important suggestion is to discuss with your partner about your likes and dislikes. Teach him how to please you and you do the same for him. Sex should always be fun and exciting, and never a jaunting task..
LADIES AND GENTS THESE ARE REALLY BASIC TIPS, IF YOUD LIKE OTHER SUGGESTIONS OR IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS I AM READY TO ASSIST YOU EMAIL ME! lalakurviekulture@gmail.com
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