Everyone has it, fantasizes about
it, or will eventually do it. SEX!!!!!! Gone are the days of “sex” being a “4 letter
word”, even though it has 3. In today’s society sex is a topic that is commonly
talked about. Whether you talk about how you do it, how you want it, or how you
don’t want it, sex is a popular topic for everyone…YES even grandma…EEEK!
Coincidentally, just last night I
attended a “Slumber Party”, a party hosted by a representative of a sex toy
distributor came to a location with a variety of toys, vibrators, massage oils,
and games and presented them to us for the purpose of persuading us to purchase
as many products as possible. The theme was lingerie for the attendees so we
were all dressed in lingerie for the party…OF COURSE y’all know I had to
represent for the full figure ladies in a sexy yet classy 1950s pin-up corset,
fishnets, and sexy heels(sorry but no cameras were permitted at the party). We
played a sex themed game of “I Never”, had an interesting demonstration on how
to use several different toys (not literally…NOT that kinky), and had
interesting conversation. It was fun. We
laughed, we ate, we found out some interesting things about the sex lives and
fantasies of the friends that we see daily and NEVER would’ve thought they
would be into (blushing). The party led me to thinking about the topic of the
blog for this month…what could I say about the incredible act of SEX? So for my
control week of the blog I will address several topics that I found to be
interesting at the Slumber Party and just general conversations that my friends
and I have on a regular basis (Seriously! All the time).
So for the first topic I think I
will take the responsible route and agree with Sami…Make him/her work for it.
I don’t know about anyone else but one of the first things that I think about
when I first meet someone that I am interested in is what sex would be like
with them. This is normal, or I am just a freak, because we are all human and
sexual beings. As women, we often associate sex with emotions so it is very
important to not go there immediately, unless you have the ability to separate
sex from feelings and just REALLY want it.
If a guy, or girl, if feeling you he, or she, can and will wait. I have
a lot of male friends as well as brothers and I have definitely seen a
difference in the level of respect that they give to the girls that immediately
let them smash and the girls that don’t who they actually have feelings for.
One of my friends told me that he appreciates a woman that values her “goodies”
and doesn’t dish it out to just anyone that wants it. In his eyes, that is the
woman to take to meet his mom, spend time and money with, and possibly make
Wifey. Men like to know, or at least think, they are the either the only one or
one of few. Don’t get me wrong, DO YOU! Sleep with whomever you want. I’m just
saying that if you meet that one person who you really like and you think
really likes you, make them put in work. If you give into what he/she wants
immediately there is nothing to build up to. No anticipation.
Feel free at any time to contact me at
keakurviekulture@gmail.com with any questions, comments, or concerns. I am very
open, not much surprises me or makes me uncomfortable.
-Kea
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