Sex! What can I say about sex that hasn’t already been said
or written? Probably nothing, however I’m going to share with you my views
about sex anyway!
First things first, there’s no such
thing as bad sex just bad communication between you and your partner. That’s right you heard me, ladies if the
sex is bad it’s because your partner is not aware that you are not getting everything you need to take you to that happy place where all you can do is smile and babble! But you can’t
simply blame your partner for being selfish and not thinking of you and
your needs, especially if you don’t vocalize them.
Which leads me to my second point,
knowing what your needs are! It is extremely important that you get to know your body inside and out. first Literally! Now some of you may not know your G-Spot from that smooth spot on the rough of your mouth. No seriously, if you run your tongue over the roof of your mouth towards the back is a smooth spot. Now take two fingers and insert them into your vagina and motion come here you should feel a soft smooth spot on the inside of your vagina, that is your G-Spot! Congratulations you've found it! Now keep saying come here until you literally come. Also, did you know that your Clitoris is the only organ whose purpose is solely for pleasure? That's right! It's only job in life is to bring you pleasure, so ladies if you're not utilizing this organ then you're keeping it from doing it's job. Hehe...
But back to what I was saying, it is extremely
important for you to know what you like don’t like, and what spot if hit
perfectly right makes your eyes roll back in your head and lose ability to
speak coherently. That is why self-love (masturbation) is important. First you
must explore the homeland before you let someone else roam all over it. When
you first buy a home or a car you thoroughly inspect it before you go showing
it off to other people right? Well you’ve got to do the same with your body.
Then, once you know what makes you say; “oh shit”, “damn”, or
“aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh…..yesssssssssssssssssssssss” then
introduce your man to those wonderful moves and encourage him to explore them
before, during, and after sex!
Like all things in life sex is all
about communication; bad communication equals bad sex. Ladies you’ve got to
open your mouth and speak up about what you want. You want to use toys or props
tell your man, you like a certain position or him in a certain spot say so,
even if it is during sex just open your mouth and say what you want because the
squeaky wheel always gets the oil.
Ladies, I love sex and I love to talk about sex. I’m very
open, honest, and I’m so not afraid to share. Ask me questions either here or
via email carkurviekulture@gmail.com
and I will tell you whatever you want to know.
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